Bonding between two people creates a relationship at the physical and psychological level. But unfortunately due to a host of factors, relationships break down; especially broken marriages can be devastating. When one tries to reverse the direction of a broken relationship that has suffered from emptiness and conflict, then there has to be a right balance of pure intention and patience to set it reworking. Restoring broken relationships require careful consideration and hard work, that will materialize only if both partners are committed to each other and love each other. It all depends on the degree of discord and the levels of friendship shared between the couple.
Ways to heal a RealtionshipAwareness of inharmonious patterns creating the dysfunctional relationship is the first step towards healing and bringing it to balance.
- Consider the factorsthat make one join with another again, which might be ranging from: shared feelings of togetherness in the past, sake of children, financial reasons, social conditioning, physical pleasures, need to stay as a family as it gives a sense of deep security, to do away feelings of loneliness, and there could be many more.
- Reflect on: moments that you truly had for each other and were there for each other, times when you received good things from another, like prepared a good meal and received compliments or bought one`s wife a surprise gift on her birthday or could be simply fun with kids and many more moments cherished. Fond memories help erase old hurt feelings of quarrels, temper tantrums and harsh exchange of words.